Nnorma: How do you know if all has died with your present partner if you feel nothing?
cl-drellenk: Nnorma, instead of talking and thinking, why not do something? When you get off the computer tonight or tomorrow morning, when your mate expects a little peck or nothing, grab him and give him a passionate 10 second kiss and see what he does. Too many people get caught up thinking instead of doing.
cl-drellenk: Why not make an "I Love You Call," and call your mate just to tell them you are thinking about them and how lucky you are to have them in your life.
oneofeach99: I have been with dh for 20 years now. I'm bored.
cl-drellenk: The best way to not have a boring relationship is to not be a boring person. Why not do something outrageous and out of character, something that will knock his socks off? As soon as you so much as think about doing something different, you will be scared, nervous and excited, but you won't be bored anymore.
shells1: My boyfriend and I are not demonstrative people. The way we try to tell each other that we want to make love is to wrestle each other to the ground. I need more, even though the matches are fun. Any ideas?
cl-drellenk: Shells, inside every man there is a little boy and inside every woman, there is a little girl waiting to come out and play. The man or women that knows how to be playful is a joy in someone's life. I always ask couples when was the last time you laughed with your mate, a pillow fight, a game of tag or a snow ball fight.