10 Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble

How do you know when your relationship is just not right? Sometimes it's a feeling you get -- deep down, you know something's off. But often there are telltale signs that you're headed for splitsville. Time to read the writing on the wall (11 Photos)

Ronnie Koenig on Apr 5, 2012 at 4:56PM

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10 Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble

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You're Snooping

If you’re looking through your man’s jeans pockets, hacking into his email or conveniently “glancing” at his phone, it’s probably because you’re looking for evidence of what you already know or your trust level with your guy is nonexistent. Think about it: when Elin looked at Tiger Woods’ text messages, do you think she was expecting to find something good?

“You have to wonder if you’re looking for a problem because you don’t trust men, don’t trust your partner or feel insecure about yourself and your relationship. If you’re acting on intuition that there’s a problem, then carefully think about the facts of the matter the way an outsider would -- is there legitimate cause for concern?” says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., author of Sultry Sex Talk to Seduce Any Lover.

And don’t fool yourself into believing that spying on your guy is no big deal.

“Snooping isn’t a normal part of a healthy relationship, so the desire to investigate can say a lot,” says Fulbright.

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