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12 Red Flags Not to Ignore When You're Dating

Is he good enough to date? Not if he pulls one of these moves! (13 Photos)

Julie Fishman on Jun 29, 2011 at 8:41PM

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12 Red Flags Not to Ignore When You're Dating

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On the First Date He Says, "Let's Have Sex."

Men have sex on their minds and sometimes they can’t help but voice their carnal intentions. This is normal: A man’s spoken desire to rip your clothes off may even turn you on. However, if all he seems to talk about from date one is getting you in his bed, he may take you for a floozy. When “let’s get busy” comes before “what’s your name?” it’s a sign that he’s only interested in getting to know you on a sexual, not personal, level.

Tips excerpted from The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags: Relationship Warning Signs You Totally Spotted... But Chose to Ignore, by Natasha Burton, Julie Fishman, and Meagan McCrary