13 Signs He's Just Not Into You (Sorry.)

Starting to wonder whether he's just not that into you? Relationship experts dish on some telltale signs he's losing interest. (13 Photos)

Mina Hochberg on Jan 1, 2013 at 7:26PM

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a Mina Hochberg on Jan 1, 2013 at 4:35PM

Gauging a man’s interest level can be tricky, whether you’re on your first or thirtieth date. Some men cut to the chase and tell you they’re not interested. Others, though, prefer to leave clues -- and hope you’ll get the hint. Without going through the headache (and heartache) of trying to figure him out, we’ve asked relationship experts to dish on 13 telltale signs that he’s just not that into you.

He’s Super Affectionate in Private, but in Public He Won’t Even Hold Your Hand

Normally at home he can’t keep his paws off you, so why does he back away from your touch whenever other people are around? “If he’s afraid to smooch or hold hands in public, that’s a big red flag,” says Jordan Harbinger, co-founder of the Art of Charm, a company that helps men build better social skills in personal and business relationships. “He’s afraid other people are going to judge.” Handholding in public should be no big deal even for the most PDA-phobic.

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