13 Things Stepmoms Wish They Could Tell Moms: I Will Always Be a Tiny Bit Jealous about the "Firsts" You Had with Him

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Lindsay Ferrier on Oct 27, 2009 at 4:00PM

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I Will Always Be a Tiny Bit Jealous about the "Firsts" You Had with Him

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a Lindsay Ferrier on Oct 27, 2010 at 4:03PM

Forgive me if I seem like I’m trying too hard around you; it’s because I feel a little insecure. It’s not hard to understand why -- my husband thought he would spend the rest of his life with you. He had children with you, bought a house with you, and experienced all sorts of “firsts” with you that I know he’ll never forget. There will always be a small part of me that wonders if he misses what the two of you had together.