7 Ways to Help a Friend Through a Crisis

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Lori Hope on Aug 11, 2009 at 10:30AM

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7 Ways to Help a Friend Through a Crisis

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2. Be There, No Matter What

"K" has suffered from anxiety disorder for years, but when she was diagnosed with lung cancer, her anxiety became almost too much to bear. “I find people look at you differently when they find out you have an incurable disease,” wrote K. “I know it's because they can't do anything to help, but it hurts when they walk away from you.”

How to help: “I need to know you’re here for me” is one of the top statements people with cancer want to hear. Too often feelings of fear, discomfort or powerlessness keep friends or family away from those who need them most. Ask yourself if you’re finding excuses to stay away. You don’t need to say anything; just being there and listening matter most. If you can’t be there physically, send a card, gift or letter.

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