18. Put aside your inhibitions: "While we were out together, my wife let me know she was wearing very seductive lingerie. Later, the outfit itself was so sexy to see. But what seduced me was the fact that I know she doesn't have a great body image. She wore something that she didn't think she looked good in because I would love it. And of course, she looked great!"
19. Indulge his quirks: "I'm a huge ketchup freak. So one day the woman I was dating put together this package for me, and instead of surrounding all my goodies in some fancy paper, she filled the bag with ketchup packets. She showed she was paying attention to my little weird quirks and such, and I thought that was the cutest thing ever!" --Josh, 26, portfolio manager
20. Help with the tough tasks: "The morning after I threw a wild party, my wife (then girlfriend) helped us clean up the huge mess, even though some of it had actually made me gag! I knew then that she would stick by me -- and that I felt the same way. That was also the morning that I first said 'I love you' to her." --nos482, 31, attorney