3 Lessons Learned From a 38-Year Relationship

CR: Right. Part of it is noticing, though. Lately, Steve has been trying to set the table the way I like it set -- putting out the night napkins with the night plates and glasses. For years he never noticed, or thought I was foolish for caring. It was also important for me to learn not to nag. That's dumb, too.

From "From This Day Forward." Copyright (c) 2000, 2001 by Cokie and Steven V. Roberts, published by HarperCollins Publishers. Reprinted by permission of HarperCollins Publishers.

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