You and your daughter could be two peas in a pod or as different as night and day. No matter what your differences, there is one proven activity where moms and daughters can always bond. That's shopping!
Ok, so maybe you're looking for a strappy evening sandal and she's looking for a black grungy boot. That doesn't mean you can't shop together. Go to a mall where there are different stores for different tastes. Take turns picking which store you go into next. And by all means, have fun.
The most important thing you can do is to meet each other halfway, and keep your criticisms at bay. After all, you might just learn a thing or two from one another.