Not long ago, I did a piece on the rules for "Sleeping at Her Place," which was designed to allow any would-be Player to enjoy a singular evening of passion without stepping over the line into that dreaded land of commitment. This time, we have to address the flip side of that coin, which is sleeping at your place. In some ways, this is the easier of the two locations in which to strive for the appropriate after-hours climax, but you still run the risk of accidentally implying you're in it for the long haul. You may have the benefit of the home base, but if you're not careful, that one night can easily turn into a breakfast date, which can eventually turn into a "ball and chain" weekend. Most men believe they can control the situation when in familiar surroundings, but that confidence can be both a blessing and a curse. While you know the lay of the land, the ultimate act of intimacy is both a mind-blowing -- provided you do it right -- and risky endeavor, an unbelievable thrill ride with potentially crippling consequences. But when it's over and both parties are completely satisfied, the Player dons a classic pin that says, "Spare me the drama."
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