And before all the women start shrieking about respect and adolescent behavior, I would remind you that this tactic is hardly limited to gender. The females have had this idea for quite a while, and I dare say they were the group that originally patented the theory.
Maintain control at all costs
I'm not suggesting you take "control" to an offensive or overly dominating dimension, but I am suggesting that you dictate the flow of the encounter once you're sleeping at your place. At no point prior to this is such a style required (you can let her grab the reigns during dinner conversation, if you wish), but when it comes to behavior in your place, you've got to keep a strict regiment. The Player can't afford to let anything slip, and when at home, you should be able to maintain firm control of the proceedings. Before, when sleeping at her place, you were at the mercy of her intentions and preparations, which meant you had to roll with the punches and adapt on the fly. When she's sleeping at your place, all you have to do is take her hand from the get-go and lead on. If you sense she's crossing over from passionate rubbing to loving caresses (there's a difference, guys), then redouble your aggression for lust's sake. If you don't get the distinction by now, your attempt at Player status is hopeless.
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