The Ups and Downs of 69

Become a master at the 69 position! Try these tried-and-true tips to having the best head-to-toe action ever.

Other Good Oral Sex Positions to Try:

For Him

  • He stands while you sit facing him on the side of the bed (or on any piece of furnituremthat's the right height). It's more comfortable for both of you, and it lets you stimulate his penis, nipples, testicles, perineum, etc., without your hands getting cramped. It also gives you control over how deeply he thrusts into your mouth. Some men say their legs go wobbly on orgasm, but most can survive if they collapse on the bed immediately afterward!

  • He stands while you kneel in front of him. It's more comfortable for you than lying down beside him, and it's hugely appealing for him because you're in the classic "submissive" pose.

For You

  • Instead of you lying back and him lying between your legs, he lies back on the bed and gets you to climb on top of him, facing the headboard. You put your hands against the wall behind the bed to steady yourself and then lower yourself onto his mouth and tongue. This gives you complete control over the pressure: You can lift away from his mouth if it's too rough and move closer if you want it harder. His neck's not cramped, and it stops his tongue from getting as tired.

  • You lie back on the bed while he kneels between your legs and lifts them up so they're resting on his shoulders. He's in a kneeling position; you're lifted in the air, but your shoulders are still on the bed. You use your hands to support yourself, and he supports you by holding your legs. This feels fantastic, and he gets the added turn-on of seeing exactly what's going on.

  • A comfort tip for the basic you-lying-back-on-the-bed position: Roll onto your side so he can rest his head on your thigh. Put a pillow under your bum to make everything more accessible.

p.s. Missed one of Tracey's columns? Read them all here. Plus, check out Tracey's Love Bytes video series: Watch the videos now!


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