7 Ways to Make Anal Sex More Pleasurable (And Fun!)

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AskMen.com on Aug 5, 2010 at 11:29AM

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Although many women have told us that their first anal sex experience (and sometimes their second and third) hurt a lot, but ladies, it doesn't have to. We're serious. Now, if she isn't calm and relaxed, it's going to hurt. If you insist on shoving your penis inside her (like ripping off a bandage -- one shot), it's going to hurt. If you don't use lubrication, it's going to hurt. You need to talk about it and both of you need to agree to do it happily; no one should be coerced into it. You also need to be patient and let her lead the way. If you are going to engage in anal sex, let her hold your penis and guide it in slowly. Go in about an inch, then pull out completely, then go in about an inch farther and pull out completely. Keep going in and out at one-inch intervals and pretty soon you'll be in.

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