“Use it with a boy. Use it with a toy. Use it with your favorite boy-toy!” says Myers. “Anyway you use it, lubricant helps make the most of your sexiest moments.” If you never thought of lube as a “toy” (but rather something for people in a “dry” spell) think again. “Slippery sex is good sex,” says Claire Cavanah, co-founder of Babeland and co-author of Sex Toys 101. The wetter, the better.
But don’t just pick out any ole’ slippery solution. To begin with, you want to make sure you have a water-based product (lest you want to risk tears in any latex products you might be using). Then look for other benefits like “non-irritating” and “unscented.” Good ones to try: