Addicted to Internet Porn

When he'd rather surf porn sites than have sex with you

It's 3am. You're lying awake in bed. He's downstairs in his office checking his e-mail.

Yeah right.

Almost 100% of men have looked at Internet porn. But it's one thing for him to look—and quite another for him to use Internet porn as a replacement for the real thing (sex with you).

There's a new sex problem that's clogging up the inbox on my Web site: internet porn—or more specifically, What do I do if I catch my partner looking at Internet porn? Never has graphic porn been more easily available than now—and men are taking full advantage of it. In one US survey, 97 percent of men said they'd accessed porn and two percent said they'd rather not answer the question. (If that's not a yes, then what is?) For most, Internet porn is a harmless bonus: something to do while you're out with the girls or when he's away on business. But some men embrace it a little too enthusiastically, deciding it's actually preferable to real-life sex with their real-life wife or girlfriend.

Let's face it: The girl on the computer screen not only has perkier breasts and a flatter stomach, she'll do just about anything how and when he wants it. No wining, dining, talking, compromising, coaxing or emotional effort required. Just instant, intense visual stimulation which, when coupled with a D.I.Y. hand job, is a lazy passport to pleasure. Is it any wonder lots of men are choosing Internet sex over the real thing?


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