Addicted to Internet Porn

When he'd rather surf porn sites than have sex with you

There's no interaction. Unless he's doing it via a live Web cam, he can't control what's happening. With you he can.

He can't snuggle up afterwards.There's no skin-to-skin contact. He might pretend not to like the cuddle at the end, but he likes that part just as much as you do (only he's sleepier).

When Do You Need to Worry?

Most women find out their partner's been indulging in a little Internet porn when they (accidentally, of course) click on the "history" button of their browser. Quite frankly, if all you find is the occasional standard porn site when you do and it doesn't seem to be more than once or twice a week, I wouldn't give it another thought. Assuming you're enjoying satisfying, regular sex, it doesn't mean he's not happy with you just because he's having the occasional masturbation session; it's just a bit of fun and a release for him.

Also don't panic if you don't look like the girls on the screen. It doesn't mean he wants you to look like the way they look, or even that he wants you to do what they're doing. He might have a particular physical type that turns on his "filthy" side, but have absolutely no desire to date someone who looked like that. Plus, often guys will watch sex they'd be horrified to take through to reality.

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