Addicted to Internet Porn

When he'd rather surf porn sites than have sex with you

What If He Has Stopped Having Sex with You?

If his desire for sex has dropped, but he's spending more time, holed up in his office in front of his computer, chances are he's choosing Internet sex over sex with you. You need a plan: First up, try not to have a kneejerk reaction. More often than not, it's fixable—if you approach it the right way.

It doesn't necessarily mean he's lost interest in you. If it's simply happening as the relationship ages, it's probably because he's lazy. The thing is, if you're a year or more into your relationship, the lust hormones that fuel desire are already trickling to a halt. Desire won't just tap you both on the shoulder like it used to in the beginning; you need to create it. He's creating it for himself by watching porn. That's all that's happening. If you think of it like that, you'll feel less threatened. You're also in the right head space to solve the problem. Here goes...

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