Adultery, The Forgivable Sin with Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil

Is he changing the way he dresses? Do you make love more or less often? Are there new sexual techniques being used?
Viggy: There is a name of a coworker that gets him VERY upset when mentioned.
DrBonnie: Is he more secretive and irritable and fault finding?
christas99: Hi, I just came on and have been dying to talk to someone about all the anger I hold from my husband having an affair.
DrBonnie: Viggy, that could be a warning sign.
Viggy: There was a time a few months back when the name did not make him upset at all.
DrBonnie: Are there any other signals?
Glamourgirl: I think that the best clue of all is your own gut instinct.
Viggy: Our fights are about his secretive behavior. He is distant at times and says nothing is wrong, but he does go out of his way to be nice.
DrBonnie: What secretive behavior is he denying?
Viggy: He won't talk and when I want to. He automatically thinks I am accusing him of something when I am not.
DrBonnie: Explain that if one person thinks there is a problem, then there is a problem.
Viggy: He won't tell me about things he does or has done until the last minute or weeks later.
DrBonnie: Tell him you want to connect to him, on a daily basis.
Viggy: Then I get mad and I become the bad guy for getting mad. He blames evrything on me.
DrBonnie: He needs to be taught how to inform you on a daily basis of things that are important to him,and things he does at work.
Viggy: Check in.? NO WAY! He thinks that he is in a hole as it is. If I don't question him, we get along great.

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