Ancient Sex Secrets: How to Find a Man Using Feng Shui

DO'S cont.

  • Hang a round mirror. Love is energy and energy is a living thing. Control this energy by bouncing it around the room using mirrors. Why round? The shape invites more feminine energy into your life -- which is essential for attracting that special someone .
  • Make sure your bed is placed so that there are no windows near the headboard. You do have a headboard, don't you? You want to create a sexy sense of inner-strength, so you need a strong headboard up against a solid wall.
  • Add undergarments. If you want to turn up the heat in your relationships and love corner, stock your drawers with sexy little somethings , line up your lingerie or just toss in a pair of panties. Just remember, a little lace goes a long way.



  • Never keep ''single'' stuff lying around. If you're stuck with a twin bed for now, at least add a guest pillow. Do you use a single-cup coffee maker? It's time to upgrade to something larger. If you display photos of yourself alone, move them out of this corner. Surrounding yourself with solitary symbols will keep you sleeping single even longer.
  • Don't let your relationships and love area get messy. Creating a loving energy is difficult when dust, fingernail clippings and old Twinkie wrappers clutter your corner.
  • Avoid using your relationships area for storage. That space under the bed looks like the perfect place to tuck away holiday wrapping paper, skis and suitcases, but if you are looking for a relationship without a lot of baggage , clean it out.

After you've applied these principles, take a moment to test your handiwork. Walk outside of your bedroom or home and imagine an island getaway for two. Picture the bed, the matching nightstands, the flowing curtains and everything else that you consider essential in such a seduction scene. Now, walk back into your area. Is it up to your standards for a lover's holiday -- or would you feel ripped off if you rented this room? Feng shui may be mostly about arranging your items to reflect positive energy, but it's also a great way to create the perfect setting for a romantic rendezvous at home!

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