Ask the Sex Coach About Multiple Orgasms

A_M_C: Anal orgasms?
Drpattisays: Yes, the anus actually contracts in a pulsing rhythm just like the vagina or the prostate in men. And if that appeals to you, be sure to read up on anal sex. It can be dangerous if not done right. So, about the FMO: the real key is to get to the first orgasm as quickly as possible, with whatever works best. Many women rely on finger or oral stimulation on their clitoris to do this. Then penetration can begin. Once penetration is happening, it's possible to go and go. What I find is that most women do NOT allow the process to continue -- they stop themselves, or their partners stop. It seems that lots of men poop out after their first and only orgasm and women can go and go. A woman is capable of infinite orgasms.
ICEDTEA9: After penetration my partner is done.
Hydra: agrees whole-heartedly.
Chrisanns: Sometimes my husband can go for hours.
Drpattisays: I am talking about the majority of reports on sexual behavior, not all people. These are the trends.
Cheechamia: I understand.
Drpattisays: So, many men do poop out and perhaps then expect that when their female partner comes, she will too. Alas, men and women have different sexual wiring and that leaves us in the lurch sometimes as couples. So what is needed is that a woman and her partner learn to go further than before, sort of a Star Trek attitude. And, by keeping going, like working the clitoral area with a vibrator or hand, after the orgasm, she can keep going. Sometimes there is a need for breaks and it's perfectly okay for both men and women to take breaks.

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