Drpattisays: Ben, come on back next week. I think I will have answered your concerns in the articles section on virgins. See you there.
ICEDTEA99: So you said that when you're done with one orgasm, you can try to keep using your finger to help create another orgasm?
Drpattisays: Sometimes, it requires a brief break from touching, if you are too sensitive. But, if you keep the touching going, you can go through that wall and feel even more. I like to coach women to go on what I call "rounding"; they take little breaks and each time they soar higher and higher. These are often done with vibrators alone, but it's okay with a partner too. I believe that women are afraid to keep going beyond the big orgasm #1. We have not been taught that it's possible. And at the peak of orgasm, the clit becomes very sensitive. So lighten up and then resume. Will you try that and then report back here next week to me?
ICEDTEA99: So you say stop and then try again?
Drpattisays: Yes, Iced, if you are too sensitive.
LizardDance: suggests that a tongue may have a lighter touch than a finger.
Drpattisays: Great, I like Lizard's comment, but even then the clit may be too sensitive. Still, it's gentler than a finger. A feather may be better!
Cmtdarden: Dr. Patti I think this was a great topic and I enjoyed the information.
Drpattisays: Thanks, Darden. I enjoyed doing a mini-lecture. Bye, all.
Fun4u99: I loved the topic and want to thank Dr. Patti for the words of wisdom.
Drpattisays: Thanks, all who enjoyed this night. Enjoy your week. Thanks, Ben for showing up and keep the process going. Bye, all. Thanks!
OP_Temom: I really do appreciate all your time this week and your patience Dr. Patti, it meant a lot to all of us.
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