Ask the Sex Coach About Orgasms

Drpattisays: Hello, all.
Cmtdarden: Learn how to find ultimate satisfaction in the bedroom (or where ever else you see fit) with Sex Coach, Dr. Patti Britton. Tonight, Dr. Patti talks about orgasm enhancement for the woman who can't get there. How is everyone tonight?
OP_Temom: Okay. And you, Dr. Patti?
Drpattisays: Thanks, Darden, looking forward to the classroom tonight.
Drpattisays: Is everyone in their seats with notebooks ready?
mug_piper: Yep.
Trueorfalse: Talk about the scene in When Harry met SallyDrpattisays: Okay, let us begin. I thought that I would outline the issues for why women may not get to orgasm. In the first place: 1.) Thinking, "What does that mean?" Well, it starts with thinking, if you are not informed or are ignorant, that may be the issue for why you cannot reach orgasm. Often I find that women lack fantasy material, that is, their "well" is dry when it comes to imagining fantasies that can get them sexually aroused. So, often it means putting some fresh material or ideas into their repertoire.
Drpattisays: Make sense so far?
Cmtdarden: Yes, Dr Patti.
Drpattisays: Issue 2.) Feelings ... emotional. This is VERY common for women -- issues that arise and stop them from enjoyment and especially orgasm. The most typical emotional blocks among women are:
1.) Fear of sex. 2.) Fear of intimacy/men/closeness. 3.) Fear of abandonment. 4.) Guilt about being sexual. 5.) Fear of letting go and losing control. 6.) Shame about sex. 7.) Shame about her body (BIG ONE). Does any of this strike a chord?

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