Ask the Sex Coach About Orgasms

Drpattisays: There do seem to be different types of orgasms and, in fact, based on research conducted by labs such as at Masters and Johnson in St. Louis and Hartman and Fithian in Long Beach, there are different types. Often women report that they feel/experience a different type with the G-spot stimulation than with vaginal stimulation. And, there is a definite difference in sensation from clitoral stimulation and from vaginal stimulation. Does that answer your question?
mug_piper: Yes, thanks.
OP_Temom: What are some ways a female and her partner can overcome sexual blocks together? I run a crisis board with tazz, this is an issue we run across sometimes.
Drpattisays: Temom, that's a very good question and one which is tough to answer simply as sometimes it is quite complex. First I am a big fan of couples' counseling when there are blocks to the ultimate satisfaction of both. I recommend that couples consider various means of self help. And, some of those resources include: Imago therapy and the works of Harville and, Hendrix. Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find are two titles. I also think that John Gray has a very powerful method in his book The Love Letter Process, which I use with couples almost every time. Check that one out. It's in the back of Mars/Venus and it works. Also, couples often need to clear out the resentments and anger sludge that has built up over the years. And I am a big advocate of sending people to seek spiritual support and empowerment. Yes,

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