I'm a horrible grudge holder. My hubby can apologize over and over, but I'll still stay mad. I don't ever forget either; it's like I keep a mental list of all his screw-ups. It's very immature, but I can't seem to overcome it. My worst habit is "yessing" DH. This is a new one for me — meaning I just started to do this. I know that I'm right and he wants to argue, but I'm not in the mood so I just say, "Okay, you are right," just because it's easier than getting into an argument over something stupid. I have the hardest time saying "I am sorry." It is the weirdest thing... My heart wants to say it and my head wants to say it, but I can't get my mouth to say it. My husband on the other hand can say it with ease and sincerity. Sometimes I have to write it! Everything but my mouth works, LOL. My worst habit is interrupting him. Sometimes I get really excited about a topic we're discussing and I can't help but jump into the conversation before he's finished talking. I do this with my girlfriends too, but we just talk on top of each other and enjoy the intensity of the conversation. My guy hates it though — he sees it as a sign of disrespect, not excitement. So I'm working on it. I'm getting better, but occasionally I still slip up!
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