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With so many methods available and so many factors to consider, choosing birth control can be difficult. You may be able to decide on a method by asking yourself the following questions.
One of your first considerations might be to determine whether you want permanent or temporary birth control. In other words, you should consider whether you want to conceive any (or more) children. This is a decision that will affect the rest of your life and can be made only after thinking it through carefully.
If you know that you will not ever want to conceive a pregnancy, tubal ligation or tubal implants for you or a vasectomy for your partner is a reasonable option to consider.
If you are not sure about the future even though you know how you feel now, a temporary method is a better choice. If you are young, have few or no children, are choosing sterilization because your partner wants it, or think it will solve money or relationship problems, you may regret your decision later.
If an unplanned pregnancy would seriously impact your plans for the future, choose a birth control method that is highly effective. Or, if you have a stable relationship and income and plan to have children in the future anyway, you may feel comfortable using a less reliable method.
See a table showing the birth control failure rates of each method.
Hormonal injections (Depo-Provera), implants (Implanon), and the hormonal and copper IUDs are highly effective methods of birth control (97%, 99.8%, and 99.9% effective). That means fewer than 1 to 3 out of 100 women using these methods will become pregnant in a year.6
Birth control pills (both combination and progestin-only) have a high success rate of 92%. That means that 8 out of every 100 women taking pills become pregnant in a year. If taken carefully every day or at the same time every day, birth control pills are over 99% effective.6 The hormonal skin patch and vaginal ring are thought to be about as effective as birth control pills.
Barrier methods
, including the diaphragm, cervical
cap, Lea's Shield, male condom, female condom, and spermicide, are
moderately successful at preventing pregnancy. The
diaphragm and cervical cap are 84% effective for women who have not had a vaginal childbirth. This means that of all such
women using a diaphragm or cap, 16 out of every 100 get pregnant in a
year.6 Women who have delivered a baby vaginally have
lower rates of success with diaphragms and cervical caps.6 These methods are more effective when they are used every
time you have sex and when they are fitted correctly. Some women find it hard
to plan ahead or to interrupt an intimate moment before having sex to use a
barrier method.
Condoms alone or spermicides alone are also moderately successful at preventing pregnancy.
Consider carefully whether these higher risks of pregnancy are acceptable to you. Experts recommend that you use condoms along with another method or spermicide and condoms together to increase their effectiveness.
To be effective, a barrier method must be in place every time you have sex. When possible, put a diaphragm, cervical cap, sponge, or shield in place ahead of time. If not, it's necessary to interrupt the moment and put the barrier in place. Some people successfully use a condom or other barrier method as part of their lovemaking.
Consider how comfortable you feel about using a particular method of birth control. If you are not comfortable with or might not consistently use a birth control method for any reason, that method is not likely to be reliable for you in the long run. A reality check for birth control methods can help you determine which method is right for you.
Unless you know that your partner has no other sex partners and is free of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), you are at risk for STD infection. If you are at risk, protect yourself from infection every time you have sex. Use a condom in addition to any other birth control method you choose.
You can choose between a male or female condom to reduce your risk for HIV (the virus that causes AIDS), gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, genital warts, herpes, pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), and other infections.
If you have health problems or other risk factors, some birth control methods may not be right for you.
Other health problems that might keep you from using a particular birth control method are relatively rare, especially in young women. However, before using any method, you should talk with your health professional to see if it is safe for you.
If you are at risk of sexually transmitted disease (STD) infection, consider the following:
Using Depo-Provera for 2 or more years can also cause bone loss, which may not be fully reversible after stopping the medication.9
A small study among teens showed that bone loss from Depo-Provera was reversed after they stopped getting the shots.10 Talk to your doctor about your risks if you have used Depo-Provera longer than 2 years.
Each method has benefits.
The most common reasons women give for quitting hormonal contraception (combination pills, patches, or rings; progestin-only pills, implants, or injections; or the progestin IUD [Mirena]) include:12
Condoms and spermicides are available without a prescription. You can buy condoms and spermicides at most drugstores.
Other factors to consider when choosing a method of birth control include:
Birth control methods work the same for people of any age, although some methods are not recommended for sexually active teenagers or women over 35 who smoke. This can be because of health reasons or poor pregnancy prevention if the method is not used every time. It's important to understand:
Once you have looked at the facts about the different methods and considered your own values and needs, you can choose the method that will work best for you. Using condoms with any method may increase its reliability and helps to protect you from sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
Are you interested in what others decided to do? Many people have faced this decision. These personal stories may help you decide.
| Author: | Bets Davis, MFA | Last Updated: May 22, 2008 |
| Medical Review: | Joy Melnikow, MD, MPH - Family Medicine Kirtly Jones, MD - Obstetrics and Gynecology | |
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