Cmtdarden: Up next is Green53.
Green53: Why do men fear commitment?
BrendaShoshanna: There are many reasons that men fear commitment. Mostly, it's because they haven't found the right woman for them yet.
Green53: What if they have been in a relationship for a long time?
BrendaShoshanna: There is something lacking in the relationship, and they do not want to commit to that person because of it. Some men are just plain afraid of losing their freedom, friends, and lack of responsibility. Figure out which one you have.
Cmtdarden: Up next is tracey_com.
tracey_com: My boyfriend and I are both divorced. I'd like to remarry one day, but he is very hesitant about remarrying. He was married for 15 years and I for 2.5. Does this mean I'm not the right woman? What do you suggest?
BrendaShoshanna: Hi Tracey. No, not necessarily. It means he has a fear of making the same mistakes again. It would be good to go over the ways in which your relationship is different from his past marriage. It would also be important for you to find out how hesitant he really is. Does he intend to work on his fears, or is he just not marrying material? It doesn't mean you're the wrong woman, but he may be the wrong man for you.