Cmtdarden: Up next is lukeone.
Lukeone: Currently I'm seeing a woman I think is trying to drown me with her emotions, what should I do? Also, what is your Web page address again?
BrendaShoshanna: Hi Lukeone. No woman can drown you with her emotions. If she is too emotional for you, tell her so. Let her know how she is making you feel.
Lukeone: Then she will take it personally and get mad.
BrendaShoshanna: Perhaps she can find other ways of expressing herself. If she can't, perhaps she is the wrong one for you. My Web site is http://www.Brendashoshanna.com.
BrendaShoshanna: It is important not to fear anger. Anger is a part of any relationship. If you communicate honestly and truthfully, not blaming the other, but expressing your needs, the other should be able to hear it. If there is anger, and it is expressed responsibly, not by hurting another, it is fine. If not, there is a problem.
Cmtdarden: Up next is Greathelp.
Greathelp: What are some of the signs a partner gives off when cheating, e.g.; leading them to be caught?
BrendaShoshanna: When a partner is cheating, the other one usually senses it. There is withdrawal, staying away from home more, especially at times when the person used to be there. There can also be withdrawal of love, affection and attention.
tracey_com: In response to greathelp's question Brenda, should you call them on that hunch?
BrendaShoshanna: In answer to Tracey, it is always important to be honest.