If you have a passion, flaunt it
There's one thing that's beginning to fall by the wayside, and women seem to be especially in tune to this lacking. For some reason, ambition and motivation appears to be at an all-time low amongst the 20-somethings out there, which means if you have a particular passion, flaunt it. Here's one universal rule: women find passionate men attractive. If you are passionate about your work or your favorite hobby, there's a damn good chance you inject that amount of emotional force into other aspects of your life. It doesn't have to be anything sexy or even remotely feminine in nature; you could be a total gearhead, or maybe your passion is something like camping. Don't talk her ear off; just get a little animated and get that sparkle in your eye. She'll take notice, and she'll want to learn more about you.
This may seem too forward, but you'll want to be covert in establishing this particular conversation topic that leads to sex. You don't want to be detailed or graphic, and you certainly don't want to get personal too early. These approaches will lead to a collapse of the conversation, which you can easily spot by examining her body language. She'll start to draw away, her eyes will shift, her answers will be abrupt and clipped, and obviously, she's seconds from bailing. However, you can avoid this if you have a humorous story that only indirectly ties in with sex, or you can try delving into the more intellectual and societal aspects of the topic. You could talk about the constantly changing night scene, how different women have drastically different viewpoints on the subject and you should do it all without risking the scary, creepy guy label. Just be light and casual, and be ready with an easy laugh.
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