Another way to get you and your partner in the mood for sex -- aside from those unplanned acts of foreplay -- is to create intimate rituals that you can look forward to every day… rituals that make you feel closer, and all sorts of lovey dovey. Perhaps you could share a cup of coffee every morning. Give each other foot massages while watching TV in the evening. Hold hands while taking your daily walk. Anything that helps you feel that you’re much more than two ships passing in the night.