Do men hate talking about marriage? Answers at iVillage.com

Location:
Cleveland
Age:
22-25
Occupation:
Managerial
 
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Question
A Thinker asked:
Do men find it awful when their girlfriends talk about marriage? Is it like the sound of nails on a chalk-board?
Location:
Houston
Age:
29-35
Occupation:
Technical
 
Answer
An Engaged Guy answered:
If a man isn't bringing up marriage, it's because he's not ready for it. If the girl brings it up, he knows she wants something that he's not prepared to give.

That makes him uncomfortable -- and when a guy gets uncomfortable about a relationship, that's the beginning of the end.
Location:
Denver
Age:
36-45
Occupation:
Management
 
Answer
A Mr. Married Guy answered:
In my experience -- as a "Player" when I was younger, as a divorced guy whose first wife pushed him into marriage, and as a happily-married husband now -- if the guy isn't making the first move towards marriage, the relationship is either a) not headed in that direction, or b) headed for disaster.
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