Looking for a little extra love? Really crave the feeling of being in love? Hoping to find the man of your dreams -- or convince him to find you? If you answered yes to any of the above, this spell is for you.
This spell works to stop you from sabotaging the love you already have or the new advances that you turn away. You have to remember that you deserve love. This is one of those spells that crosses the line between "getting it" and "keeping it," and can be used for both purposes.
Supplies: A pink candle, mirror, pin, bottle of vanilla-scented oil, love oil, love cologne, or blessing oil (vanilla's correspondences include Venus, the element of water, and the energies of love, lust, and mental power); a handful of dried, ground lady's mantle herb (perfect for love spells: feminine, Venus, element of water); a special candle holder that speaks of love to you.
Instructions: Pick one evening to stay in, relax and work some magic on your love life (preferably on the day and hour of Venus during the waxing of the moon, but ok if not). Hold the pink candle in front of you while gazing into the mirror and say:
Lady Venus, I add my name to this candle times three. Aid me in my desire to be one, to be loved and be free. I hereby take the first step in reclaiming my life, by my will, by my Word, by the Elementals and Wights. Be with me through the painful cold nights, for through me comes the change that brings love to my life.