When You'll See Results
Then take your pin and inscribe your name three times on the pink candle: once to love yourself (envision yourself feeling good, happy and secure, and see yourself taking pride in everything you do), twice to love another (picture yourself happy and in love -- remember not to specify one particular individual, that's a no-no), and thrice for another's love for you.
Hold this visualization in your mind as you anoint the candle with your special oil. Chant the following:
At one with the flame, my inner fire, Venus grant my heart's desire.
Feel the power and emotion of what you wish to accomplish pouring through your hands and fully charging the candle until your fingers throb. Roll the anointed candle in the lady's mantle herb. Put the candle in a special holder and light the wick. Sprinkle the remaining herb around the base of the candle. Blow the loose herb from your palm into the winds of change.
I also recommend burning the candle while taking a spiritual bath, meditating on the changes needed in your life to make you a better person and how that change will affect your confidence level and overall appearance to others. In fact, you may burn the candle at various times up until the full of the moon, at which time it is appropriate to burn until it burns itself out or bury the remainder on your property. You should see results by the next full moon.