That's one thing I really love about that dress, now I just have to wait for it to get down to a price that I like and hope it fits as good as it looks. ;
Adding highlights would be a great change and spring isn't that far away, so that would be a good idea. Even lipstick is a good one too because it seems to stay on longer than gloss, or at least it has for me.
As for clothes, go and just try on clothes you don't normally wear to see what you can like. I don't mean you have to start dressing like Britney Spears to say your dressing differently than before. But it wouldn't hurt to step outside the box. And its just clothing, you can always change if you don't like it. Go to places that have sales people that suck at seeing if you need anything while you are in the dressing room because then you know they won't be coming around every 2-5 minutes to see if what you're trying on fits, so it gives you a chance to see what you like and what you can add to your wardrobe, but make it something different, it will help you get out of that fashion rut and now's a good time to get those fashion magazines since they are all about spring fashion, even if it doesn't feel quite like spring outdoors for the moment. It will give you ideas for hair, makeup and fashion for spring and it just might inspire you to step out of your shell and see you....2.0.