Not so happy newly wed...

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Registered: 03-27-2011
Not so happy newly wed...
Tue, 05-03-2011 - 3:24pm

My husband and I are young and

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Registered: 10-29-2004
Thu, 05-05-2011 - 12:26pm

Welcome to Stress & Women.

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Registered: 09-02-2003
Mon, 05-09-2011 - 1:05pm
Ohmigosh. I'm so sorry you are feeling so alone right now! I think perhaps one of the problems is that you are feeling like you are not part of the decision making process. It sounds like this is something you feel he should have discussed with you before applying for the jobs.

Is this move going to provide enough money that if needed you could fly home? Or make regular visits?

And what about the moves has bothered you the most. When you are living in the same town or area as your family are they your main source of socializing? What other activities do you like to do? Is it possible that you have focused so much on what you might be missing in these towns that you have neglected to find what you might enjoy about these towns?

Is there someone you can talk to about your fears in leaving your town? And how is your relationship otherwise? Is the move the only big issue or are there other issues?

I'm sending you {{{HUGS}}} and hope that you can find the answers and balance that you need!

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Registered: 11-26-2001
Mon, 05-09-2011 - 9:54pm

I'm sorry that you are feeling so stressed.