Fiance drinking again...need help
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|Tue, 11-06-2012 - 12:09am|
My fiance gave up drinking cold turkey when we got together. He told me he knew he was a monster when he drank and didn't want to risk losing me. I never knew he was an alcoholic, until his mother told me about it a few days ago. He has been extremely busy with work...making little more and tons of bills. Our vehicle recently broke down. I am always at home taking care of kids. That would make any person stressed out!! I overall thought I was a good woman to him. Mind you he would also tell me this and he treated me like a queen. Not until he started hanging out with his buddies from work, turned to him drinking, staying out all night. Telling me he doesn't know if our relationship is going to work because I don't trust him. I did trust him, until his behavior turned suspicious. Then he tells me he never told me I had to move out, when I tell him I am going to leave. It has only been a week, but I am just so confused! I have tried talking to him, but I think he just wants to party. He is gone now and I am pretty sure he is with a fellow female coworker. Why won't he tell me and my kids to leave?? I mean this is his house and I don't pay any bills. Is he testing me to see how much I love him and willing to help an alcoholc? Any advice, and please be nice....my heart is broke!