Yes it is so sad that this man doesn't get it. The reason he doesn't is because he fails to hold himself and his bad choices accountable for the outcome of this ordeal.
"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."
thanks for the encouragement.
In all fairness, remember- everyone sitting in the church is a sinner.
Very true indeed.
What i meant was in his case, specifically, it was meant as a lie to make me believe he shared my faith. He is quick to forward me an email about "not giving up", yet he won't address his own addiction to drugs. He has lied to me this whole time, saying he was not on drugs. And when i find out, he wonders why i wont stay with him to "help". My feeling is he didn't want help to get clean... he wants help to cover it up. I cannot live like that....
and btw, yes, everyone in church is a sinner. myself included.