Not much support here. (though I do think "Misssy2"gets it).
You remind me of my mother in law. My FIL was not a nice guy, chased women, had affairs...She decided that she would try one more time with him. He was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. He was nasty mean to her then. She stayed by his side, tried to get him to eat, took him to treatments. Then he died.
She has no regrets.
Only you can decide what is best for you,.
....why did you feel the need to take a swipe at the board?...no support?...look around, the board is dead because people are busy with summer...if what you want to hear is just what you want to hear, you will feel unsupported everywhere you turn...when you post that you are miserable but you don't want to give up your material things, then...what is left to do but stay...
hi so sorry to hear what is going on. i am also 58. i was brought up with 2 alcoholic parents dad died in the year 69 and mom just died. i never was able to deal with AA or ALONON.