so ... the other day ...

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Registered: 08-07-2006
so ... the other day ...
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Fri, 04-22-2011 - 11:24am

The other day ... I realized something. I realized that I have CRIED MY LAST TEAR over my ex-husband (an alcoholic) - and this has been EXTREMELY empowering for me!!! I WILL NOT CRY for him ANY LONGER - the truth is - the FACT IS - that I have done so MUCH with my life in the past 2 and a half years. GOSH I AM PROUD OF MYSELF :-)

Since he has left ... :-) I am so proud of this, but since he has left ... I was accepted into nursing school and I have only one YEAR left to go before I will finish nursing school.

And you know what - I could have NEVER DONE THAT while I was married to him.

The weirdest thing is that HE left ME - and looking back, he did me the BIGGEST FAVOR of my entire life. It was cosmically huge what he did for me.

Community Leader
Registered: 09-14-1997
Fri, 04-22-2011 - 11:45am

You ROCK! You incredible woman, you. Congratulations with moving on and moving ahead!

Community Leader
Registered: 10-08-2002
Fri, 04-22-2011 - 12:39pm

Oh my goodness....like Beth said....YOU ROCK!!

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