Will AA stuff help me?
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Will AA stuff help me?
| Mon, 01-24-2011 - 11:45am |
I'm not an alcoholic, but I think I might be co dependant on one.
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http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/about.html
A lot of AA is based on common sense. Accepting that we can't change other people is just plain good sense. AlAnon is based on better sense LOL- Detaching with love, for example. We can love the person and hate what drugs or alcohol has done to that person. We can allow our alcoholic or addict to have the consequences of his/her behavior. That is so easy to say and so hard to do. No one wants to have our loved ones hurting...but from the pain of our consequences, we become 'sick and tired of being sick and tired.' I mean, if we never have consequences, then we never learn.
As for moving out of the bedroom, that is only something YOU can decide.
there is no Al-anon anyway near here
so I guess the answer is no
www.alanon.org
Online meetings?
Are there any?
http://www.ola-is.org/