Almost 4 months into it and still in so much pain

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Almost 4 months into it and still in so much pain
30
Sat, 03-12-2011 - 6:53am

Yesterday was so hard ladies,

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009

~hug~ Josie.



iVillage Member
Registered: 01-29-2008
Hugs Josie!! 4 months is a rough point. Almost all widows I know from all sorts of age ranges hit hard during that time.. Its when so much literally hurts your soul. All that nonsense people like to say only makes it harder. I hate those so often! I think its a good sign you recognize it. What type of puppy are you looking at? Hang in there sweetie!!

Powered by CGISpy.com
Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Thanks Promise. Another awful sad day. I will force myself to go to church and sunday school, then go to his grave as I think they may have put his marker on it the end of last week. Hanging on by a thread. Josie
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Thanks for the kind words. We looked at a mini dacshund, alas, the guy was creepie and running a puppy mill from his house, crates everywhere and wanted too much and he doesn't do any shots from the vet, when I called later to decline it, he acts like he would drop the price but that always turns me off like a used car salesman or something. But we did go buy a bunch of puppy supplies. maybe go searching next weekend as that is the only time my stepdaughter has time to do it. That is a true statement: when it literally hurts you soul. that is me for sure. Josie
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009

Hang in there Josie, you can come through this, I know you can.



iVillage Member
Registered: 01-29-2008
I hate those puppy mills! :-( Sad people that do them. Hope you all can find the perfect puppy! I dog sat a boxer last night and he was a really good dog. Just slept except when he looked at me all sad missing his owner. LOL I swear was a lot easier watching him than a toddler! Hang in there sweetie.

Powered by CGISpy.com
Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999

HI and thanks again Promise and Katie:

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009

Josie, sweetie, you make the decisions that are best for you at the time that you make them.



iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007

(((Josie))) I'm sorry things have been so rough lately and I'm really bummed that the little mini-dachshund didn't work out for you (they are such sweet little things).

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Promise: I hope my thoughts aren't triggering you. Please let me know if they are and I can post on ivillage suicide board or write "triggers" in my post. I say this because I really care for you. Years ago on the depression board, we would use the word "triggers" if it might trigger someone. Let me know, I want only the very best for you. Love, Josie

Pages