day by day

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Registered: 02-21-2012
day by day
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Mon, 03-05-2012 - 6:15pm

I have had some good days, very little crying and some where i cannot function. Two weeks ago right now he was here with me. Its so hard to believe. I know i have a long journey ahead of me.

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Registered: 11-04-1999
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 5:31am

HI, and yes, there is sure many days ahead of up and down, there will be times when you think, OK, I can do this, then a minute later you will be deep in grief and doubt and crying/screaming your eyes/body out.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 9:38am

Hey,

Those days will continue to be up and down for some time yet.



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Registered: 02-21-2012
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 8:24pm

So many emotions to deal with, had a bad evening . I need to get to grief counseling.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-1999
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 5:17am
I am sorry you had a bad evening, but not surprised as it is an awful shock to your physical and mental life. I hope you get grief counseling, it has kept me alive and has helped me accept what I have been given. I will always miss my husband and the life we had together but counseling has helped me get up in the morning and most days, find some peace, some acceptance with being a widow. take care, Josie
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Registered: 03-20-2009
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 1:40pm

I know, sweetie.