Dealing with loved ones possessions

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Dealing with loved ones possessions
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Fri, 04-01-2011 - 3:46pm

Have you found it difficult to deal with your loved ones possessions? Have you hung on to stuff because you feel that getting rid of it is like trying to push them out of your life?



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Fri, 04-01-2011 - 4:25pm

Hi Promise:

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Registered: 01-29-2008
Fri, 04-01-2011 - 11:01pm
I still have all his clothes, but they are packed up in the basement just in case his sons want them. All hygeine stuff is out. I sleep in his PJ Pants though because they are comfy! ;-) And his ARMY t-shirts rock! LOL Some things I will never be able to part with, but some stuff I can. I had my sister help on some stuff which made it easier.

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Sun, 04-03-2011 - 7:24am

Hey Josie.



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Sun, 04-03-2011 - 7:27am

Hey Katie, that's cool.



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Registered: 01-29-2008
Mon, 04-04-2011 - 2:49am
I think some things I felt rushed, but in hindsight glad I didn't have to do a lot! She wants me to get rid of his clothes already, and I doubt I ever will. :-) Glad your parents were able to help even though it felt rushed. :-(

We are doing good. He's growing, kicking, and flipping all the time now! LOL Its quite the odd sensation while driving down the road! I go on Thursday for a 3D Ultrasound because I'm impatient and want to see who he looks like! LOL That would have been my 4th wedding anniversary so wanted something to look forward to that day, ya know?

Overall not too uncomfortable yet. I fell a few weeks ago and sprained my ankle but its getting better. Not as swollen or sore, but sometimes hurts if I do too much. I do have pain rolling over in bed but dr claims its normal, but I swear its PAINFUL! LOL At least its temporary! And the heartburn I could live without. But knowing he is ok, and feeling him move, hearing his heartbeat at the appts makes it all worth it! I wouldn't change it at all because all this will end. :-)

How are you doing? And the health stuff? Getting all that figured out and working for you? Hope you had a good weekend!

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Mon, 04-04-2011 - 9:51am
Oh Katie, take it easy on that ankle, and be careful, we don't want you hurting yourself again (I was so clumsy when I was pregnant, so I don't have a lot of room to talk, lol). I'm glad that otherwise you're not too uncomfortable and that your little man is doing well.

I see that you're hosting the Pregnant & Single board now. I'm glad to see you back on the Community Leader team. :)

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Registered: 03-20-2009
Mon, 04-04-2011 - 3:21pm

That is great you are feeling so well.



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Registered: 01-29-2008
Mon, 04-04-2011 - 11:11pm
Thanks Amy! I've been taking it easy as I can which I think has helped! I sit in my recliner everynight so it stays elevated which helps! I am clumsy even not pregnant so glad that's the only huge issue! ;-)

Thanks about the board. Feels good to be back on the "team". :-)

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Mon, 04-04-2011 - 11:12pm
Thanks Promise! I'll try to upload pictures afterward so you can "see" him. :-)

Hope the balance problems can be sorted. :-( That is never fun, and hopefully its a simple fix. Hope the blood work wasn't too terribly painful either. Hate blood draws! LOL Keep us posted on how YOU are doing! HUGS!

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Tue, 04-05-2011 - 2:37pm

My arm is real bruised today LOL.



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