I still have some of Luke's things.
I havent gotten rid of anything. His half of the closet is still there, his clothes hanging. I still sleep in his tshirts like when he was alive. I did take one of his favorite shirts that has sentimental value to me, and sewed it into a pillowcase so I can sleep with it every night.
I still have all his dvds, video game systems, and collectibles because I dont want to let them go yet, and wouldnt know who to give them to. I still have his body wash and deodorant in the bathroom, and loofa in the shower. I just havent been able to toss it out yet.
I even still have his ashes. I havent been able to let those go yet. I did put a few in the ocean, at our spot. I want to spread him around our house that he loved, but im not ready to let him go yet.
Mommy to Lilly Mae
I think it is lovely that you sleep with his shirt and have his body wash and stuff around.
I say if it is comforting to you then leave stuff as it is until you are ready to change it.
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