Happy Birthday Hubby

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Happy Birthday Hubby
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Tue, 06-14-2011 - 8:46am

So my dear sweet husband should be here with me today celebrating his 63rd birthday.

My 2 stepkids are coming up after they quit work, I live 45 minutes from them and we are going to his grave and grab some dinner somewhere.

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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 3:55pm



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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 11:42pm
How did it go? Hopefully you all were able to do the balloon release! Hugs Josie, and happy belated bday to him.

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Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
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Fri, 06-17-2011 - 9:31am
Thanks Katie. It was beautiful, 6 of us inclding his 2 kids, his brother and grandson and I released 7 balloons and daughter suggested we tie them together and we watched them float up to heaven then went to dinner. I so miss him and as I told my therapist yesterday as that was also the 7 month marker of his death, if God came down and offered to take me NOW to be with hubby, I would say YES in a heartbeat. Therapist keeps reminding me I promised hubby I wouldn't take me own life and I need to keep my promise. He packed so much life into those 62 years, and I am glad of that. Even glad he was on disability vs. working up until he died.

how is baby doing? isn't it very very close? love, Josie
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Fri, 06-17-2011 - 1:17pm

That was lovely Josie. Those balloons flew straight up to him.



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Fri, 06-17-2011 - 6:03pm
That sounds very lovely! Glad you all were able to do that. I found the 7-9 month time frame hard, so make sure you stay honest with yourself and with your therapist. We need ya here too so keep with us ok? :-)

Yeah he's due today but not born yet.. He's still moving but not listening to momma wanting him out lol. Hugs!

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Sat, 06-18-2011 - 11:53am

LOL, better get used to it Katie. My mom reckons we never listened to her from the moment we were born. Baby Zaydren is just practicing in advance :smileyhappy:

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