Knowing ahead or sudden death easier to accept?
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|Wed, 02-20-2013 - 8:26am|
My father-in-law is dying and the process has been absolutely horrible to deal with. We are all on edge just waiting for that final moment that we know is coming but we just don't know when. I have to wonder if wouldn't have been easier had he just suddenly died. I know it sounds awful but this feels like torture. Do you think that knowing you are going to lose someone makes it easier to accept or does a sudden loss seem easier?