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Sun, 10-21-2012 - 1:03pm

Hello Everyone,  I know this is a bit off topic, but my posts are showing as Visitor, I went in a re opened account hopefully that will work, I quiet like this board, and miss posting on it 

Community Leader
Registered: 10-22-2001
In reply to: okeakc01
Sun, 10-21-2012 - 2:46pm

Hi, it's good to see you...:)...

I like it to!

Lorie aka ~nightangel67~

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Nightangel
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Registered: 03-20-2009
In reply to: okeakc01
Mon, 10-22-2012 - 1:13pm

Hey,

nice to see you back. There have been some bugs in the system with the changes but they are gradually getting cleared up.

Love

Promise



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Registered: 01-03-2001
In reply to: okeakc01
Mon, 10-22-2012 - 1:41pm


I am so sorry about that. The tech team is aware of those errors and is working to fix them. It has to do with some accounts. This is what they are working on: Re-importing missing user accounts (those "Visitor (Not Verified)" accounts), which is also related to the Error pages we get when we click on a thread.(What happens is this: when we click on a thread, the system needs to load all the info about that thread – the content, the settings, and the users attached to it. As the system searches frantically for the all the users participating in that thread, when it hits a missing user account, the page load fails.)

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Registered: 08-18-2012
In reply to: okeakc01
Tue, 10-23-2012 - 5:05pm

Nice to be back, thanks Lorie, and Promise, how is everyone? Things are not quite as intense for me, as they were a few months ago, however, this grief can just catch you off gaurd and come out of now where, and you are back crying again.  Some of the things that go threw your head, are really odd, I thought to myself the other day, wow, another season has passed, and she is not here, I seem to measure time differently now, anyone else feel like that?

Community Leader
Registered: 10-22-2001
Wed, 10-24-2012 - 11:00pm

Hi how are you doing?

Time does seem to be affected.

Seems to go really fast or really slow.

I find myself crying.

I am on an Anti-depressant and had the dosage increased, not too sure if it's helping.

Going to talk to someone tomorrow about things.

<3

Nightangel
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Registered: 08-18-2012
In reply to: okeakc01
Thu, 10-25-2012 - 5:57pm

Hi Lorie,

Nice to hear from you again.  I hope talking to someone helps, this crying just comes out of no where.  Usually when I am down and  upset about something or another, I need to talk to her so badly, and then the tears, I cant talk to anyone like I did her, no one will ever come close.  I find generally speaking that most people find you should be one your way by now, feeling better, honestly, I dont get that concept, it actually bothers me.  I did join a grief support group, its been good, these people totally get what you are saying.......and its nice to be around that kind of support, unfortunately, I have missed some nights, because of my work schedule, but I go when I can.  Sometimes I think for me anyways the grief and depression are all mixed in together, it a bad combo, but we have to deal with the hand we have been dealt as they say, so we carry on,

Take care of yourself,

HUGS

Kathy

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Registered: 03-20-2009
Tue, 10-30-2012 - 4:24am

Hey Kathy,

grief and depression are a powerful combo , as you say. And I agree, it isn't possible to talk to just anyone about our grief. It's great you have a RL grief support group to talk with. So many people think that once the funeral is over, we should be back to normal. But there will never be that normal again.Cry

Love

Promise



Community Leader
Registered: 10-22-2001
Sat, 12-08-2012 - 4:19pm

~hugs~

Thanks so much Kathy!

<3

Lorie

Nightangel