New Loss

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Registered: 06-10-2007
New Loss
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Fri, 10-22-2010 - 12:11am

I posted on here recently that my husband had a stroke. Well he was on the mend, and recovering and out of the blue his heart stopped, and they couldnt get it going again. He passed away 5 days ago. I am so shocked, he was only 33. We have a 2yr old together. I am trying to deal with it, and its really hard. I am still in shock, and even though I know he is never coming back, I keep thinking that I will wake up from this dream/nightmare.

I constantly think about what he thinks about what I am doing. Is it the right thing, am I mourning him correctly? Is he happy with the decisions I made for him? Is he angry with me? Does he still love me?

The questions eat me up inside. I am looking for support groups in my area but havent found any. My 2yr old( almost 3)

Karri,


Mommy to Lilly Mae


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Registered: 01-29-2008
In reply to: karebare725
Fri, 10-22-2010 - 2:30am

Huge hugs Karri!


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Registered: 08-07-2007
In reply to: karebare725
Fri, 10-22-2010 - 9:16am

((((Karri))))

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Registered: 03-20-2009
In reply to: karebare725
Sat, 10-23-2010 - 5:54pm

Hi Karri,

I am so very sorry for your loss .



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Registered: 10-16-2010
In reply to: karebare725
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:17am
I am truly sorry for your loss. I lost my father a week ago , and I know that there are no words to take the pain away , but stay strong for your daughter.
You must take your time and nurture yourself to help the healing process, he will always be with you. I just keep letting my emotions happen the way they need to , I cry when I feel it , I bring something of him wherever I go. No one can tell you how you must act or do , just live in present time. Take care,
Sad shan
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Registered: 03-20-2009
In reply to: karebare725
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 2:01am

I think the only way we can ever come through bereavement is to allow our emotions to flow freely and to allow ourselves to mourn fully and in our own way.



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Registered: 10-22-2001
In reply to: karebare725
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 10:18am

~hugs~

I am so sorry to hear of your Loss.

My heart goes out to you and your daughter at this time.

You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

<3

Lorie

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