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Thu, 06-09-2011 - 1:04am

I'm a newbie to the board..

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Registered: 11-28-2003
In reply to: rmm211_2000
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 12:12pm
HI Becky!
I'm also Becky! You know, I truly believe that my mom is watching over me, even though it's just been a couple of months. I believe there will always be reminders of some sort...good news, a rainbow (you'll understand that if you read my last post), a dream, etc. It's all the same in my opinion. Our moms all promised us, upon holding us the very first time, that we would be loved and protected forever. I know I did when my son was born. It's our moms' way of keeping that promise.

Embrace the visits. Other than the rainbow, I haven't had any sort of "visit" since I went out for the visitation 2 weeks after she passed. The missing of parents never goes away. But it may get easier to remember with smiles instead of tears.
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Registered: 03-20-2009
In reply to: rmm211_2000
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 3:04am

Hey Becky

welcome to this board.

That was a hard blow to lose your mom like that, then your grandparents. I am sorry for your losses.