ongoing pain

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Registered: 08-18-2012
ongoing pain
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Tue, 03-05-2013 - 9:09am

Hello everyone,

Its been awhile since I was on here, been a bit down.  I stll feel such pain for my buddy Sue, I miss her all the time and our talks, I would do anything to talk to her one last ime, but I know its nots possible.  My brother who also has cancer is not so good, see him going down and down, its all so overwhelming at times.  Both these people were such anchors in my  life.  To top it off my husband could not be less sensitive or caring, its like his life has not been interupted so its not his problem, I am to the point, with his cold heartness, I think I need to leave, he could not be less supportive and its actually making things so much worse for me.  You sure find out who you true friends are in times of trouble........

 

I hope you feel better Promise, we do miss you

 

Hugs to all

Kathy

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Registered: 10-22-2001
Wed, 03-06-2013 - 7:32pm

Absolutely Awesome!

Thanks Heidi...:)

You have helped me so much more than words can say.

Since moving here to this new city I have made many new friends which is great but one in particular and I have become very close.

Sometimes it's ALL about no judgement.

She is my friend for Life!

I believe we were meant to be Friends...:)...

She and I are like Sisters...:)...

It's like we ALREADY know when the other one is "Hurtin"...kwim?

You are such a wonderful friend Heidi and have been an "Inspiration" to me to carry on even when I don't feel much like it...

<3

Lorie

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Nightangel
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Registered: 08-18-2012
In reply to: okeakc01
Wed, 03-13-2013 - 2:26pm
Hey Lorie, I am so glad you are moving a bit forward, happy you like your new surroundings, and making new friends, they never replace the goods ones we have lost, ever, but you don't feel so isolated, I think its almost normal to isolate yourself after you lose someone, I know for me, the pain of just explaining things got to much, and no one really got it (other than here), it was just so frustrating, so it was easier to isolate. Maybe a new start, new place, will be just what you needed it sounds like it has been a positive move so far........ Hugs Kathy
Community Leader
Registered: 10-22-2001
Sun, 03-17-2013 - 10:26pm

~hugs~

Since moving here actually to a new city I have experienced so much "LOSS"...

I know with the Depression it's not good for me to isolate myself...:(...

Kathy this is someplace I can come and everyone understands...

New friends never replace your old ones...

I get up everyday and carry on in her honour...

And others I have "LOST' along the way...

Nightangel

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