Uphill Struggle

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Registered: 03-20-2009
Uphill Struggle
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Tue, 12-07-2010 - 4:11pm

Feel like I am struggling uphill the whole time these days.



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Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 12-07-2010 - 4:40pm

(((Promise)))

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Registered: 01-29-2008
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 1:41am

Huge hugs Promise!


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Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
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Registered: 11-04-1999
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 4:27am

Hi Promisie:

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Registered: 03-20-2009
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 5:46pm

Thank you for the hug Amy



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Registered: 03-20-2009
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 5:48pm

You made me smile Katie with your description of why we get theses days....well, because it sucks LOL. Thank you



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Registered: 03-20-2009
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 5:51pm

But Josie, you did help me a lot. You reminded me that I am not doing this alone and even in the middle of your pain, you stopped to help me with mine. Thank you.



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Registered: 01-29-2008
Wed, 12-08-2010 - 8:56pm
Anytime chickadee! HUGS!

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Thank you Dedi and Kelly for my
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Registered: 10-22-2001
Sat, 12-11-2010 - 11:17am

~Hugs~

Promise you are in my heart...

<3

Lorie

Nightangel
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Registered: 03-20-2009
Sat, 12-11-2010 - 4:58pm

Thanks Lori, life is just one big struggle right now. I ought to be happy but I am not. And then I feel selfish because I know everyone else is having a hard time too.



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Registered: 10-22-2001
Sun, 12-12-2010 - 11:17am

You are not being "Selfish" you are "Hurting" right now, you just need a little time and space as you find your way...

You need to be able to put yourself first right now.

After losing someone Special I believe we are Lost for a while.

Change is hard for us to deal with, especially life-altering change when a loved one passes whether family or friend.

I miss my beloved Mom terribly even after ALL these years.

It's twenty years this Christmas.

I also lost someone to Suicide and even though it's been eight years I still miss him.

Just be good to yourself.

If you need time Alone take it.

Some family members and friends may be worried about you but sometimes we do need/want time alone.

To grieve, to reflect.

May you find Peace.

There is no right or wrong way to grieve, no time limit.

This year as I celebrate Christmas quietly with my ds I honour my Mom by celebrating Christmas and remembering the Greatest Gift of ALL Gifts is Love.

I hope my dd comes for Christmas but it is her choice and she knows that she is Loved whatever she chooses to do.

Sending you a "Virtual" hug...

<3 Lorie

Nightangel

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